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Becoming a Foster Parent

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Foster parents in Virginia are not paid a salary but receive a tax-free monthly maintenance stipend to cover the cost of raising a child.  Payments are based on the Virginia Enhanced Maintenance Assessment Tool (VEMAT), which evaluates a child's age, needs, and behaviors.  As of August 2025, rates range from $580 per month for children aged 0–4, $677 for those aged 5–12, and $861 for individuals aged 13 and older.  An annual clothing allowance is also provided, from $376 to $564, depending on age.

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